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Friday, February 5, 2010
Being healthy in Self Esteem could also being define as having a reasonable level of self confidence in oneself. But if a person is being over - confidence, other people will view this person with huge negative personalities.
An over confidence person will be identified by other people as being ignorant and unable to face criticism and advices. Another meaning for the over highly Self Esteem will be regarding oneself of being above or superiors than others and have an unrealistic positive perception of oneself that could lead oneself to being arrogant and self indulgent.
A healthy Self Esteem could be influenced by a lot of factors such as family background with the individual bring up, other peoples' reactions to you, your own thoughts and perceptions, school and extracurricular experiences, Work experiences, illness, disability or injury, culture, religion and role and status in society.
It is crucial to have a check on Self Esteem from time to time as a healthy level of Self Esteem will bring out the best in ones life. This Link consist of the range of Self Esteem where individuals could check their level of Self Esteem. http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/self-esteem/MH00128
The benefits of having a healthy Self Esteem will allow individuals to experience secure, worthwhile and positive relationships with others. You feel confident about your abilities and tend to do well at school or work. You're also open to learning and feedback, which can help you acquire and master new skills.
The link below contains suggested ways boost one Self Esteem:Through this, one may choose to follow it or to find another fine ways to boost up their Self Esteem. When i look at this Website, i find it quite interesting. It may not be the best creative ways to boost one Self Esteem, but it is definitely a way to ponder upon and to see if it is applicable or not.
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
I have found out this website about different colours with different meanings and perception.
Quite interesting. Inside this Website there is great explanation of the colours.
The link is at below:
Check it out.
Monday, January 18, 2010
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Saturday, June 20, 2009
it feels weird as for the 1st time, i'm not very sure about what to share.
hmmm........a lot of friends ask me to up-date my blog and all the usual stuff and bla bla bla........
I'll be back. No worries guys........i'll be back with extra stuff.......
Monday, February 9, 2009
Ok guys!!!!! i know the questions that ran through your mind. You guys definately ask 'Did you pray to GOD'? i did pray and ask GOD for an open door. Just when i'm almost given up the idea of getting a part time job when out of a sudden, a friend of mine offer me a job for only a month. so i thought of why not just go and try it out.
So i've settle for December. Then i ask GOD what about the month of January? Quite funny is that i thought of holiday for 1 whole month in January. but on the final week of December, another friend of mine told me that her company needed people. Of course i say "it's COOL" and the company miraculously agree with my request of only hiring me for 3weeks with 1week of holidays in between the 3weeks. GOD shows his miracles usually on the most desperate seconds.
i have even borrow Heroes Session 1 Series from my friend to watch it during my January month holiday. But i manage to get a job, so i got to delay watching it and pass it back to my friend later. My friend almost gonna screw me up for borrowing it for so long.
Although this 2 jobs are quite short, but i manage to learn a lot of stuff. Human communication, working skills and above all i've learn to depend on GOD more and more each day. It is crucial to fill my mind with positive Thoughts and thinking as POSITIVE THOUGHTS will be Projected out through my actions and end results.
Thursday, October 9, 2008
When I didn’t have the car in these twice incident, I need to ask for friends and cousins helps to drop me on certain drop off point. If I ever needed to go to some other place which is further, I may need to take buses and LRT. Changing bus station and LRT station are very troublesome. Luckily I was used to take public transportation when I was young that time.
Recently while I was taking bus due to my car “Masuk Kilang” I manage to have an opportunity to think of a few of the things in my life that I can’t live without. For me, I can’t live without Christ in my life.
Thursday, May 22, 2008
Changes is coming on the way. i'm not a superman. Changes takes time. It won't happen in a split of second or in a blink of eye.But once target is being set, hitting the target will be the most important things to be done. Lone Ranger is never a nice thing to become. its not something cool.
Certain things are not meant to be done repeatedly. Certain things needed to be done repeatedly because of no choice such as eating, sleeping and going to washrooms. We need to move on in certain things and i can't always stay in 1 area. Sometimes taking a break from the things that we're doing now for a short period of time would be great.
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
Have you come across a time in your life when you question your priorities in life? i did. and it's happening now. Previously my priorities in life would be studies, lifestyle that bring glory to GOD, friends, girls and hobbies. Now i'm in a midst of evaluating my current priorities. Certain Priorities does it worth it to continue to hold on to it?
i'm a bit worry for i'll be entering into corporate working world by end of this year. Some of my friends have no problem adapting into the working world as their motivation is driven by money. That may causes them to have a high level of tolerance and patiences even though they are being Boikot by their colloueges and sclded by their superiors till the max.
i'm expecting to be scolded and given bad comments by my upper managements if i ever can't perform till the best. But i have doubts in my ability/effeciency in adapting into the corporate working world. Another priority that i need to improve is my lifestyle that reflects GOD's glory. i can't do alone but yet it seems like there is none that will be available for support and encouragements. What a sad case? Maybe it's a good thing as this may encourage me to be independent and relying on GOD instead of Human being as mankind are all the time imperfect.
it's good be evaluating your priorities from time to time as priorities may shape your future. What you sow now is what you reap in the future. Be careful of your priorities. Sometimes you may not know your priorities as you have been doing unknowingly in your subconscious. Stay alert at all times.
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
"I have so many fears, Doctor," said the college-age woman to her therapist. She continued, "I listen to the news and hear about crimes, violence, hatred and war, and the whole thing gets my stomache in knots! I am anxious when I leave the house, a nervous wreck driving my car, I constantly worry about what diseases I might have, and I feel insecure about what the future holds.
"Of course not," snapped the young woman as she cleared her throat in indignation."Then why are you chosing to invite fear into your life," he asked.
The psychiatrist smiled and stated, "You may not be fully aware of it, but we all have control over what thoughts we allow to remain in our mind. Your fear may start off as a sudden thought, but the longer that fear-thought remains, the greater risk you have of it starting to affect you physically and emotionally.
"So, because you have faith in God, I guess that means you trust Him, correct?"
replied the therapist as he fiddled with the pen in his hand.
"Then next time you are feeling fearful, remember that faith, and trust God."
Then Matt laughed. Their fearsome stalker was a madcap paper bag, being blown along the fence randomly with the wind. They were mad cows-but not the kind you're thinking of. They must have though the bag was alive.
How often do we chase after, charge at and ultimately suffer much stress over items that turn out to be no more than empty paper bags flitting in the wind? Sometimes we call them straw men: things we think we have to battle, but we really don't.
The first one Matt think of is bad drivers. Now, yes, we need to drive defensively and be on the lookout for other drivers doing stupid things. But since we all do stupid things on the road occasionally, when someone makes a turn without making a signal or speeds up while you are passing, let it go! Don't fume for two miles.
Then there are those who worry so much about health, diet, and exercise they make themselves sick. Yes, these are all valid worries: but I am struck by how often those who are super careful about what they eat, staying trim, and following the latest health guru-then succumb unfortunately and tragically to cancer or heart disease.
There is the empty bag of worrying excessively about self. My schedule. My priorities. My family. My goals. How much I've had to suffer. Such persons are always first to tell their stories. Whether married or single, we need to learn the give and take of considering the needs of others as at least important as our own.
One of the most famous singles who ever lived has some good advice for us along these lines: "Do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink, or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? Look at the birds of the air, they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?" (Jesus, circa 30 A.D. Matthew 5: 26-27)
This is not to encourage irresponsibility. Of course we have to work, drive defensively, be careful to avoid litigation, take due care about our reputations, and so on.
But just remember that God was watching those anxious, angry cows along the fence row, too. If God cares about some silly cows, how much more does God care about you and me?
As they were walking nicely towards the town, they meet up with some passers by. This time, the passers by says that Janice is torturing the donkey by sitting on it. As the couple were feeling bad for the donkey, they change their position by carrying the donkey on their shoulder.
When they thought that they are doing the right thing, another passers by says that they are extraordinaryly stupid for carrying an animal, while you as a human have the authority over the animals. It should be another way round, that the couple should be riding the donkey to the town and not the other way round.
Human being are a UNIQUE creature. Everyone had their own thinking and understanding and acceptance and needs. It is pointless to put effort to satisfy Human Being. Whatever you do, there will always be someone out there that will always go against your action and decision. Human Being should fulfill their responsibilities on earth and continue to do GOOD deeds.
Mankind could extinct in the future. Earth will probably not last long. There is no limit in earning Money and we can finish spending our money in a split second. Relationship can break at any times. It seems like nothing last forever. But there are 2 thing that will last for eternity; Heaven and Hell.
GOD's Love is unlimited for his children. GOD and Jesus Christ never fail to fullfil his promise to us. So why wanna satisfy Human Being when they can failed you at anytime, at anywhere, at any costs? It is always the smarter choice to focus your life, objective around GOD. Always maintain a moderation while an extremist with a wrong thoughts will become a disaster.